Healing Hearts, Empowering Love
Where science and empathy unite to build lasting relationships.
Is This You?
You've been matching and messaging with so many people on dating apps, but more often than not, you've experienced ghosting, possible red flags, and an overall lack of genuine connection.
Past experiences have left you hesitant to trust, making it challenging to feel safe opening up.
Ready to break free from old patterns and create the meaningful relationship you deserve?
We can help you:
Understand what you are seeing in other's actions and how to navigate your own triggers
Identify Red Flags versus when to communicate and forgive to avoid toxic situations
Practice a more intentional mindset in dating so you can reach your relationship goals and find lasting connections
This course is for anyone who wants to move beyond surface-level dating to create deep, lasting connections while honoring their own worth and boundaries.
Membership Options
Self-Guided Course
Online Learning
Healing Hearts Circle
Online Group Support
Intensive Transformation
Course, Community, & Private 1-on-1 Coaching
No more endless swiping, second guessing, or settling.
Feeling overwhelmed by today's dating landscape? You're not alone.
Healing Hearts Dating is your complete guide to finding authentic love in the modern world – without losing yourself in the process. Created by relationship experts who actually understand what it's like out there, this course gives you practical tools and emotional wisdom to transform your dating experience from frustrating to fulfilling.
Is Healing Hearts Dating for You?
We've seen it first-hand – smart, amazing people struggling to find meaningful connections in today's dating world.
Maybe you're exhausted from matching with the wrong people, tired of feeling like you have to pretend to be someone else, or wondering if real connection is even possible anymore. That's exactly why we created this course.
As therapists and coaches, we've helped countless people break free from painful dating patterns and find genuine love. Now we're sharing these proven strategies with you, combining deep psychological insights with practical, real-world dating advice that actually works.
Why did we create Healing Hearts?
Are you...
Finding yourself either rushing into relationships or running when things get real?
Worried you'll have to compromise who you are to find love?
Tired of dating apps that leave you feeling more disconnected than ever?
Trying to "put yourself out there" but keep hitting the same walls?
If any of these ring true, you're in the right place. This course is for anyone ready to approach dating differently – with more authenticity, confidence, and self-awareness. Whether you're just getting back into dating or you've been searching for a while, we'll meet you exactly where you are.
What Makes Healing Hearts Different?
While other dating programs focus on quick fixes or manipulation tactics, we go deeper. We don't just tell you what to do – we help you understand why you do what you do in relationships.
Our approach combines practical dating strategies (yes, we'll give you tips to help you write that profile and navigate those early conversations!) with powerful emotional tools that transform how you show up in relationships.
No generic advice or one-size-fits-all solutions – just real guidance for real connection.
Meet Your Guides
Miran Dalley
(She, Her)
Miran Dalley, MS, LCPC, is the founder and owner of Inner Self Healing Center, with locations throughout Maryland and Virginia. She specializes in working with individuals and couples, believing that every person carries within them their most authentic and beautiful self. When individuals recognize their inherent resilience and perfection, meaningful connections flourish.
Motivated by the frustrations and hopelessness she observed in her clients, Miran felt a deep calling to help others find love and connection. After experiencing a long-term marriage and subsequently going through a divorce, she ventured into the world of dating apps to rediscover love. Drawing on the methods she now teaches, Miran found an incredible partner within just four months. Today, their thriving and fulfilling relationship continues to blossom.
Miran firmly believes that nothing is more fulfilling in life than a partner who complements one’s authentic self, empowering individuals to thrive in all areas of their lives.
Aaron Frazin
(He, Him)
Aaron is a Couples and Sex Coach, trained by renowned therapists, specializing in helping individuals and couples overcome intimacy challenges and build meaningful connections. Since 2018, he has guided couples through navigating conflict, improving communication, and enhancing sexual relationships—whether reigniting passion or exploring intimacy for the first time.
Aaron’s diverse experience includes working with various relationship structures and empowering clients to create healthy, fulfilling connections. His career also spans founding a multi-million-dollar tech company, training therapists, and transforming lives through his compassionate and dynamic approach.
Safrianna Lughna
(She, Her & Ae, Aer)
Safrianna Lughna, LCPC, MS, is a licensed trauma and sex therapist, transformational mentor, and international best-selling author. Known as the Queer-Spirit Guide, she empowers LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent individuals, and those exploring ethical non-monogamy to embrace authenticity in life and relationships.
Combining clinical expertise with spiritual insight, her approach includes trauma-informed techniques, LGBTQIA+ and polyamorous dynamics, mindfulness, and shadow work. She is the best-selling author of books like A Woman's Work and Bumble Bees & White Balloons, exploring self-love, trauma healing, and queer partnerships.
Through her Living LUNA podcast and community, she promotes "Uplifting the Others" by helping individuals set healthy boundaries, connect with their higher selves, and pursue relationships that reflect their true desires and identities. Safrianna’s work empowers people to navigate dating with confidence, compassion, and curiosity.
Learning to love yourself builds the foundation for fulfilling relationships...
What You’ll Learn
Navigate modern dating platforms with confidence
Build lasting connection skills to co-create fulfilling relationships
Recognize unhealthy vs healthy relationship patterns
Transform anxiety or discomfort into self-awareness
Set joyful boundaries while maintaining openness
Create authentic connections that align with your values
Course Curriculum
In this educational and empowering course, you'll learn to navigate modern dating with confidence, authenticity and emotional intelligence. Through expert guidance from experienced therapists and relationship coaches, discover how your attachment style influences your dating patterns, develop practical skills for online dating success, and build the self-awareness needed for healthy relationships. Master essential dating skills from profile creation to boundary setting, while healing past wounds and creating meaningful connections.
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Begin your journey with a thorough introduction to the course structure, meet your expert guides, and learn how to maximize your learning experience. This foundational module ensures you have all the resources and support needed to transform your dating life.
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Dive deep into the psychology of attachment and how your early experiences shape your dating patterns. Through evidence-based insights on trauma, triggers, and emotional regulation, you'll develop a stronger relationship with yourself while building the secure attachment needed for healthy relationships. Learn powerful coping strategies and rewiring techniques to manage dating anxiety and build resilience.
The Dating Yourself sub-module teaches essential practices for cultivating self-love and creating meaningful solo experiences that build confidence and reduce dating pressure. Master the art of quality alone time as preparation for authentic partnership.
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Navigate modern dating dynamics with newfound awareness and practical skills. Understand the difference between spark and authentic attraction, learn to date with intention, and master the art of genuine self-presentation.
In the Creating Your Dating Profile submodule, you’ll get expert guidance on creating an authentic dating profile, selecting photos that represent your true self, and first date preparedness.The Communication sub-module equips you with essential strategies for navigating app-based dating, from crafting engaging messages to handling challenging situations like ghosting with grace and self-compassion.
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Develop refined skills for assessing potential partners while maintaining healthy boundaries. Learn to recognize both red and green flags from a nuanced psychological perspective, understanding the difference between trauma responses and genuine warning signs. Master the art of joyful boundary setting and authentic communication.
Gain deeper insights into relationship dynamics and the essential elements of long-term relationship success. This module synthesizes everything you've learned into practical wisdom for creating lasting, fulfilling connections.
Find Love Without Losing Yourself!
Modern dating doesn't have to feel overwhelming or inauthentic. Our course combines practical dating strategies with deep emotional wisdom to help you create meaningful connections while staying true to who you are.
Results from the Course
Master Your Emotional Landscape
Break free from old patterns and navigate dating with confidence. Through evidence-based psychological insights and practical tools, you'll understand your attachment style, manage triggers effectively, and build the emotional resilience needed for authentic connection. Learn to trust your intuition while developing a stronger relationship with yourself—creating the foundation for healthy partnerships.
Date with Intention & Authenticity
Move beyond surface-level interactions to create meaningful connections. Discover how to present your authentic self, initiate engaging conversations, and assess compatibility with clarity and wisdom. Our expert guidance helps you navigate modern dating dynamics while staying true to your values and maintaining healthy boundaries. Transform anxiety into empowered action through practical, proven strategies.
Build Lasting Relationship Skills
Develop the essential skills for creating and sustaining fulfilling relationships. Learn to recognize genuine green flags while understanding the nuanced reality of relationship dynamics. Master the art of joyful boundary setting, authentic communication, and emotional attunement. These core competencies not only enhance your dating experience but create the blueprint for long-term relationship success.
How we can support you to find your path to authentic, lasting love?
Everyone's journey to finding love is unique. We offer three distinct ways to support you in transforming your dating life, each designed to meet you where you are.
How to Find Love on Dating Apps Course
One Time Payment of $347
or 2 payments of $177
For the independent learner ready to transform their dating life.
Our comprehensive online course gives you the tools and insights to navigate modern dating with confidence. Work at your own pace through therapist-designed modules covering attachment styles, emotional regulation, and practical dating strategies.
Perfect for you if:
You prefer learning independently
You're ready to invest in understanding yourself
You appreciate structure and practical tools
Healing Hearts Circle
Upgrade
$27/month
(Add On Service)
For those seeking community and ongoing expert support.
Connect monthly with fellow growth-minded daters and get direct access to our relationship experts. Share experiences, ask questions, and find support in a trauma-informed and understanding environment.
Perfect for you if:
You thrive in community settings
You want regular expert guidance
You value peer support and accountability
You're looking for continuous growth
Intensive Transformation Package
$1157 for Course,
6 Sessions, & 3/mo Circle
For those seeking personalized guidance and rapid growth with support.
Combine our complete course curriculum with private coaching for a truly transformative experience. Get personalized feedback, customized strategies, and expert support throughout your dating journey.
Perfect for you if:
You want personalized expert guidance
You're ready for deep, lasting change
You value customized feedback and strategies
You're seeking accelerated growth
Unlock the patterns holding you back from authentic love
Understanding your unique dating archetype is the first step to transforming your love life. Our therapist-designed quiz reveals your core relationship patterns and provides personalized insights to help you find (and keep) the authentic connection you deserve.