In today's dating landscape, many of us are caught in a paradox: desperately seeking connection while our trauma responses keep us locked in patterns of disconnection. As a trauma-informed therapist, I've observed how past experiences can create invisible barriers to finding love – but there's hope. Together with fellow therapist Miran, we explore how to move beyond fear-based dating, build authentic connections, and trust ourselves again in the digital age. Learn why searching for red flags might be keeping you from finding green lights, and discover how to date with both wisdom and openness.